Ngaphakathi kwemindeni efudumele, ubudlelwano bobabili bujabulisa, buthokozisa umntwana omncane obanjwe ezandleni zabo, ukukhanya kwendlu kuhamba kahle, umoya ugcwele iphunga elizinzile lokuthokozisa. Izingqondo zikhuthazwa futhi ziwavuleka ngezithako zemvelo, lezi akuzona nje izixazululo zokwelapha umzimba, kodwa futhi ziyizikhumbuzo ezicacile zezingqikithi zempilo. Ngaphandle kwefu, isinyathelo esisha siphakanyiswa phezulu esibhakabhakeni, ukukhanya kwenyanga kuwa, kuhlanganyela le ndlu yonke. Le mifanekiso ifihlekile ngemisebenzi eminingi: uthando, ukuvikeleka, izimfihlo zokuphila kwangaphambili kanye nezifiso ezintsha. Njengoba abantu besenkundleni efana nale, ukufinyelela empumelelweni, ukususa izithukuthuku, ukwenza uzinzo nokukhulisa, sekuyinto efunwa kakhulu phakathi kwabantu besimanje. Kulokhu, sizohamba ngokujulile, sikhumbula izithombe, izinyathelo, ukusebenza kwemithombo, kanye nezinkumbulo zokuhola, ukuze sithole ukuthi singazisebenzisa kanjani lezi zinto, ukudala isikhala sokuphila esibangelayo futhi esisebenza kahle.
1. Ukuhlelwa kwamandla okuthokozisayo
1. Umndeni ungumgibeli.
Ubulili obushisayo abuvumeli ukubonwa, kodwa buvela ekuhlanganyeleni kwabantu. Umshado lowo osukhalela umntwana, uthando luyathempiselwa. Uma amalungu enza kahle ezweni, kuba nesikhala esihamba kahle. Njalo ekuseni nasebusuku, kubalulekile ukuthi wonke umuntu abambane, aphinde abonge, athumele amandla amahle kuwo wonke umuzi. Ngenxa yokuthi imizwa iyahamba, umoya omubi ngeke umqhube.
2. Ukusebenzisa izithako zemvelo.
Izithako zomsebenzi zefenisa zifaka phakathi i-rosemary, i-lavender, i-sage, i-mugwort, kanye ne-bay leaf, ngayinye inemisebenzi yokukhulula izithukuthuku kanye nokuletha inhlanhla. Ungabeka izithako zempilo ezifanelwe ngamalokhu amancane, ophonsayo emnyango, eminyango, noma yenze izikhumbuzo zomoya. Ungaphinda uwabhanqe, wengeze emanzini afudumele, uze uphume ezoqondisa, uthumele ukwazisa kumagquba osedlule.
3. Ukusebenza nokuvusa amandla eNyanga entsha.
INyanga entsha, iyisithombe sokuphila, izifiso ezinzwe kanye nesekhondi esiqhamukayo. Emlandweni yeNyanga, umndeni ubuthana, ubuncane benhliziyo, ubhalela izifiso zabo ephepheni, bese bengahamba ngaphansi kokukhanya kwenyanga imizuzu emithathu, bencike emuva kwezimfanelo zomhlaba, balungiselele izifiso zabo. Ngemuva kokuphothula, bahlala ndawonye, befaka ephepheni lesifiso ebhokisini elinokwenyama.
2. Indlela yokusebenzisa amandla ezithako
1. Ukwenza umoya ophumelelayo wesiQhanjalo.
Izithako zempilo zingangezwa, futhi zibhalwe njengezithako zamakhefu. Thatha i-rosemary, i-lavender, kanye ne-mugwort, uvotele uziphe. Lapho kufanele, viphe i-zinc, uziphuze ngokushesha. Ngokwenza umoya omuhle, abaphilayo bangenisa: "Ngezinhlamvu ezilungile, nosepha emyeni, bamba umqondo wokufunda."
2. Ukugeza umzimba nokuhlanza imizwa.
Jabulela ukuhamba, uthokozise nge-mugwort, i-sage, ne-bay leaf ngamanzi ashisa imizuzu engama-20, bese udlula emanzini abhuqulayo. Abantu bakhuthazwa kui-‘ukuzibuza ngezinto ezinkulu, uthole isithombe esimhlophe ‘.
3. Ukukwenza iziphuzo ezikhaliphileyo.
Khetha izithako ezifanele njenge-lemon grass, i-thyme, uzigubhe uze ungene. Usuku nosuku, khuthaza umoya ophumelelayo ngama-okulalelwayo, ukuze ubukele uthando kuze.
3. Imigudu yokucela izifiso yeNyanga
1. Preparations before the ritual.
Khethela ubusuku beNyanga, umndeni udinga uhlunge. Lungisa ipad yefiso, izinsiza zokubhala, nezikhumbuzo eziphehlwe zikhona. Ungasebenzisa umoya omuhle.
2. Ukukhuthaza imiyalezo.
Umndeni uhlanganiswe endaweni yokuhamba, ubembrane, benza izikhumbuzo ezinzima zempilo. Cisha amehlo akho, uphume lapho, hamba ngothele uthando.
3. Bhalela izifiso.
Umuntu ngamunye ubhalela izifiso ezinzima, zikhona, uzenzakalelayo, ungathanda, ucela. Njengoba ama-tasks ewufezile, bhalela phansi, uzihlanganisa.
4. Uqhakamshelwe izithako.
Landa izithako ezihle, uphume futhi uqhakamshelwe: “Nje ngani kwezithako, ngicela, ukhululeka, uthande ukuhamba.” Hamba imizuzu emibili bese uhamba ngempela.
5. Upenya whats possible
Qinisekisa ukufaka ephepheni, usazisa. Ngomlilo woshiso kumbe linina yakho, ungabamba ujenyoko uyoyu umndeni.
4. Ikhono lokujoyina: ukuvikela izimfihlo zansuku zonke
1. Ukucwaninga.
Abantu abaninzi bakholwa, izimfihlo zansuku zonke zizothola imvumela yempumelelo. Umshado udinga izinyathelo, uthole okwakho, abasekhohume, behlangene.
2. Ukuhamba, ngokuhlola.
Ukuvikela izifiso, kumukele imisebenzi eephumelelayo. Faka isibonelo sedayisi, uphume.
3. Ukwakhiwa kwamandla.
Njalo ekuseni, uhamba uthokoze, uthinte izithako, umcabange: “Umndeni, impilo, ukusebenzelana.”
5. Ukubanjwe kahle.
1. Ukwazi amandla.
Qhubeka, zonke izinsuku, uhamba, uhlola; ubhalwe izimo, ubhalela emsebenzini.
2. Ukwabelana, ukweseka.
Abantu abakhulu, abantwana, ukhululele isikhathi; abakho hlola.
3. Izithako zeMfula.
Dala umoya, ube “vidz” noma “inter,” ubhale phezulu kakhulu.
6. Ukujula nokulungisa amandla.
1. Ukuphathwa kwemigudu.
Sithokozisa ukushintshela emakhaya; ungakughubha.
2. Iziqu zefenisha.
Khetha izibuko nomhlane, uthokozise; hayi phansi.
3. Ukukhanyisa nokuxhasa.
Njengoba ubona ukucula, kudala izimoto ezinhle.
7. Ukufunda ukuphila.
1. Udla ngokudlala.
Qwrecka "umshado," uqhamuke lapho, ungene kwi-Phuma; ungahlangana lapho adisale.
2. Izinto ezisha.
Nikeza, udlale ama-happy ending.
3. Ukukhuthaza imicabango.
Khululekile, udle ama-dreams.
8. Ukuphetha - umkhakha wezikhohomba
Uhlelo lwe-puzzle, yize lukhululeka; umhlala, kudala umusa nesimo esihle sokuphila. Iziphumo ezidlasela ibanga, uthola izifiso eziphalayo futhi zikhola yahaba ezindaweni lapho, udala amagquma ah xaqhobenile. Umoya, ukudala izinhlelo, imilayezo yokukhumbuze, kudala isiphetho esibukhali.