Ngokwenkolo yamanje, ekuphileni okuningana, abantu bonke balindele ukujabulisa inhlanhla, baphume kude nemiphumela emibi, babe nempilo engokwenkolo, nengqondo, kanye nemindeni ejabulisayo. Abantu baphenya izindlela ezahlukene zokuzithuthukisa, ukuvikela ukuzithokozisa, kanye nokukhanga amandla amahle. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungakanani, umuncu ophakeme, ukuvikelwa kwemindeni, noma ukukhula komuntu, ukugcina impilo engokwenkolo nokugcina amandla amahle kubalulekile kubo bonke abantu.
Ngale ndlela, le ndatshana izobe ibhekisela ku-pair yodwa yabadala abahlala ndawonye endaweni ethule yokufunda, begcina izandla zabo, benza umkhuleko owamukelekileyo, bepheleliswa ngamandla, nezinhlaka zemibala, njalo ngezinyanga ezibhalwe phansi kanye ne-halo yokuhlakanipha. Lokhu kuzobhekwa ngaphakathi kokuthi kukhona kanjani lezi zindlela zobuchwepheshe ezingasetshenziswa ukuze uthole inhlanhla, ufinyelele esicongweni, uvikele ngokwakho, futhi uzithuthukise. Nansi indlela yokukhuthaza umfundi ukuba angene kahle ebhizinisini lokukhula komuntu.
1. Isikhala esithule - Ukwakha isisekelo sokukhanya okuhle
Lapho ungena endaweni ethule yokufunda, okokuqala okubonayo yindawo elula, eyinhle. Izinkanyezi ezibhalwe ngophahla zinyasa, umoya ugcwele iphunga le-sandalwood elisha. Phakathi nendawo kukhona itafula eliphansi lezinkuni, kwaselungweni eliveza izinhlelo zokuhlakanipha ngaphezulu kweziqhamo ezinemibala. Umfazi noMzali bahlala beduze, bezihlanganisa ngezinhlaka, bejabulisa ngesimo esiyingxube kanye nemoya, bajabulela isikhathi sokuhlala.
1. Umkhondo wesikhala sokususa amandla
- Qala usebenzise umoya ophumayo we-sage emhlophe ukudlula endaweni yokufunda, uvame ukuthintwa emoyeni, uthule izinhloso ezinhle;
- Hlanza indawo yonke, uqede uthuli nezingxenye zokuhlala, uqinisekise ukuthi amandla ayavuma kahle;
- Vula umoya, ukukhanya kukhanya futhi kugxilile, udale indawo engcwele yokuhlala;
- Phakathi kube nezinkanyezi ezincane, lezi zinezibani ezivundlile, ngokulandelana okuhle;
- Phaka i-tone eyanda ngenhloso, ugqugquzela ujantshi lokuthula.
2. Ukugcina indawo yokufunda
- Ngezinhloso zenyanga, hlanza endaweni yokufunda, izinkanyezi, futhi ungakwenzi ukucaca emoyeni kuyize;
- Umfazi noMzali bahlangana, bephinda kabili, beqinisekisa ukuvikelwa kwesikhala sabo.
2. Uhlangana - Ukudibanisa amandla amabili, uvikeleka komunye nomunye
Imindeni ibalulekile ekukhuleni kwabantu, ikakhulukazi. Uma umfazi noMzali behlanganyela, amandla amhle ekhaya ayanda. Esithombeni lesi, uMzali nofazi bayathokozisa izandla, bahlangana tujolwane, izinyathelo ezihlanganisiwe:
1. Ukuqala kwemkhuleko
- Bahlala nje, izinhlaka zasekuqaleni zibhakabhaka ede, behlakaniphile, bejabulisa emoyeni;
- Phumezani Isikhombisa, phuma ngamanye amahora, hamba ukusikhumbuza ngaleso sikhathi;
- Umoya usanda ukuyekethisa uthando kuzakwethu, sithelwe indawo, uhambise umoya omhle wezezulu.
2. Indlela yokuhlala emkhulwini
- Ubhalela umoya, hamba uqonde, uthisha onezinhlanga;
- Noma ubani okhombisa ubuhlakani, phinda umqondo, uhole nendawo eyemukeliwe.
3. Umbono yamakhamera
- Gqo pezulu kwanikhanga isikhumbuzo se-emini bese phuma uzibandakanye, hamba kuze kufike kwi-zenith;
- Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi kanye nogezi lempilo ezweni elinjani;
3. Amandla obuhlakani
- Phakathi kwetafile evulekile ngezinyanga ezintsha, kuvela izinkanyezi, kungacwangiwe;
- Qinisekisa ukufaka izinkanyezi ezinjani njengoba uqhubekela phambili emazweni lapho ukukhanya kwethula.
4. Ukuba onguwe, ufinyelele
- Abazali baphindela, basadela umoya ophumayo, baphuma umoya, ubenza ufinye lalo;
- Ukuba umoya ubalulekile, ukwandisa umoya, elakhe amandla, uvikele ukulinganiselwa kwezinhloso.
3 Iridum yesithombe
- Udial umoya, uvuleka emsebenzini;
Ngiyabonga.