Ngaphakathi kwemiphakathi yesimanjemanje, abaningi banelusizo lokufuna inhlanhla, ukususa imiphefumulo embi, ukuqinisekisa ukuvikelwa kwabo, nokuzinikela ekutholeni ukufinyelela ezingeni lokuzithuthukisa. Ikakhulukazi lapho imindeni ihlangana kanye nezikhathi ezibaluleke kakhulu, lezi zidingo ziba zibalulekile. Imindeni, njengekhaya labantu, iyindawo yokuphumula, eduduzayo imizwa nempilo, futhi iyindawo engcono yokwakha uxhumano. Le ndatshana izohlola ukuthi ungayithola kanjani inhlanhla nokuphakanyiswa komndeni, ukususa imiphefumulo embi, ukuvikela wena, kanye nokuzithuthukisa, kuxhumene nezinyathelo eziningi nezindlela ezikhethiwe, ukusiza abafundi ukuba bathuthukise izinga labo lokuphila, ukuze yonke imihlangano yemindeni ibe yisizinda sokuphila okuhle nokujabula.
Okokuqala, ukusetha isimo: amandla emindeni namandla omkhosi wonyaka
Ukuhlangabezana kwemindeni kwesikhashana, kuyi-sikhathi sokuhlangana kwemizwa nemisebenzi. Ikakhulukazi emikhosini yomkhosi noma imicimbi yokukhumbula imindeni, ukukhanya okushisayo endlini, ukudla okunempilo etafuleni, kanye nezikhumbuzo ezinjalo, konke lokhu kubalulekile ekwandiseni amandla amnandi. Kulokhu kuhlelo, umqondo nomzimba wabo bonke abantu bayazihlanza, izinsiza zangaphakathi zikhulula ngokwabo. Njengoba wonke abantu behlala ndawonye, banesimo sokuthokozisa kanye nokukhuthaza, kuqukethe ukusabalala kwamandla omndeni, futhi kubangela ukuhamba kahle ngaphakathi komhlaba.
Kuleli hlobo lomcimbi, ukusethwa kahle kwemizwa kanye nenqubo yeqhaza elitholakele kungakhuphula amandla amnandi emindenini nakubantu ngokukhawuleza, lokho kuzokwakha isisekelo esiqinile sokuthola inhlanhla, ukususa amandla amabi noma imiphefumulo embi, ukuthuthukisa amandla okuzivikela, kanye nokuvuselela ukukhiqiza.
Okwesibili, indlela yokwakha umoya opholile futhi ogcwele amandla emndenini
1. Ukuhlanzwa kwesikhala kanye nokulungiswa kwamandla
(1) Ukuhlanza indawo: Okokuqala, ukuze kudaleke ikhaya elinokuthi, kufanele kusetshenziswe ukuhlanza okuqinile. Sebenzisa izinto zemvelo, njengokuvula amawindi, ukufaka izimfucumfucu, amafutha omnye we-essence, noma izibani ze-salt, ukususa umoya omubi endlini, uqinisekise ukuthi wonke amathuba ekhaya ahlanzekile futhi ahlelekile.
(2) Ukwandisa amandla emvelo: Faka izitshalo eziluhlaza, ubeke ama-crystal noma amatshe emvelo, ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthula kwemvelo, futhi ukuze uvikele imindeni futhi ube nemiphumela yokususa imiphefumulo embi.
(3) Ukuvuselelwa kwamandla ngemva kwesikhathi: Phakathi nezikhathi zemihlangano, kubalulekile ukuthi imindeni ibeke imkhuba wokuphika noma ukubuka ngoJuba, nabanye bahlangene ukuze bakhumbule ukuphila, lokhu futhi kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuhlanganisa nemvelo.
2. Dala ukuxhumana okujabulisayo nokuhamba kahle kwamandla
(1) Ukudala umoya wokuhlangana: Abaselwandle kufanele baveze ukwehlileka, ukusho imiqondo yokuhloniphana, ukuthandana, ukuze kwandiswe umnotho.
(2) Ukubambisana kokucabanga kanye nokwakha okuqondile: Ngaphambi kwemikhosi, bacele wonke umuntu ukuthi avale amehlo, adlule emoyeni, bese enza izilokazi zokugcina izimfundiso ezinhle kumndeni bonke.
(3) Ukwabelana ngenjabulo nokuhleka: Etafuleni, cela wonke umuntu ukuthi wabelane ngento eyayijabulisa unyaka, noma ngabe iyincane, kuzovaleka ukuxhumana okuhle. Uma wonke umuntu ejabula, amandla amnandi azosakazeka njengemikhukhunathi, okuzoshintsha impilo.
Okwesithathu, amasiko asetshenziswayo okuhlanganisa inhlanhla
1. Umkhosi wonyaka wokukhulekela umndeni
(1) Bhala amakhadi okufisa: Phakathi komkhosi, lungiselela iphepha, cela umndeni ukuthi bhale izifiso nezinto abazithakaselwayo, akwenze kube i-papercraft, noma ifake ebhokisini elikhethekile. Le ndlela kumele ithunyelwe kabusha emhlabeni, ikakhulukazi ukukhanya komhlaba bonke.
(2) Izindleko ezi-5 zokunikeza inhlanhla: Faka izitshalo eziluhlaza (ezemvelo), ibhawuda elibomvu (okuhlinzekako), ama-metal (ukuvikela).
(3) Imikhuba yokukhulekela: Hamba nomndeni ukulubala ubanjiwe njengezwi elibukwayo futhi uzokwenza umhlaba ube nekhono lokwenza izifiso.
2. Ukudla okuyisisekelo nokubamba ithuba lokuthokozisa
(1) Ukudla okuphelele kwenhlanhla: Dala ukudla okuphakeme okuhlinzeka ngezithelo ezinhle, izinto ezijabulisayo, noma ukudla okunesikhumbuzo.
(2) Izinkumbulo zokuqaphela: Phakathi kwemikhosi, cela wonke umuntu ukuba babuze ngokuhlanganyela okwenziwayo, ukwenza umoya omuhle umugqa.
Okwesine, izindlela ezisebenzayo zokugqashula imiphefumulo embi nokwehlisa amandla amabi
1. Ukuhlanzwa kokukhanyisa kanye nemisindo
(1) Ukwethula amandla elanga: Ngezinsuku, vumela wonke amawindu, uqinisekise ukukhanya kweLanga ukubhucungula zonke izindonga, usebenze umkhuleko wokuhlanzwa.
(2) Imisindo yevangeli: Khetha umculo omuhle, imisindo ethokozisayo, noma imisindo yezithako ezijabulisayo, hlaba kuzo zonke izindawo, ukuze usizo lwezwi luvele kulokhu.
2. Umkhosi wokugwema imiphumela yokuzivikela
(1) Ukuhamba komkhaya: Thola izimpande zomndeni ukuze uthole amandla okuphila okushaya ama-influenza.
(2) Izikhumbuzo zempilo nezithako zokuvikela: Hamba nezinto ezijabulisayo, izincwadi, ama-celestials, nj.m., ezindlanganweni, ubeke emugqeni noma ubonwe endimeni, ubike ukukubaluleka.
Okwesithupha, ukuzivikela nokugcina amandla okwakha
1. Izindleko zokwazisa
(1) Ukushintshana kwemoya: Isikhathi esithile, ungathetha kahle phezulu, ukucabanga futhi ubone izimiso ezilawulayo.
(2) Ukuhlangana kokweseka: Hamba ngezinto ezincane ezincane, bese uphonsa izinyathelo, ulungise umehluko futhi uthole amacebo.
2. Ukuzivikela izimpawu kanye nemisindo
(1) Thola imikhuba yokuvikela efanayo, njengezinyathelo ezinhle, noma ukwehlisa ukuthi ufaka izifiso zakho.
(2) Khetha imikhawulo yokuzivikela, efana nokukuthola ukuthi "ngiyi-safety, nginempilo, ngikhululekile."
Okwesikhombisa, ukukhushulwa kokuthuthuka kwalokho
1. Ukuzindla kwemindeni
(1) I-philanthroptic family gathering: Ngamaviki noma kwinyanga, hlangana ukuze ube nenhlangano, wabelane ngemisebenzi, ukuhleleka komhlaba, nemizamo yokuzigcwalisa.
(2) I-journal yecebo: Ukukhuthaza wonke umuntu ukuba abhale izinkumbulo ezithandekayo ezithakazelisayo.
2. Ukufunda ngokuhlanganyela
(1) Zama izinhlelo ezichazwe njenge-mass, ngokuvuka ngakolunye ukusebenza.
(2) Ukubamba ukudlalwa: Qinisekisa izinhlelo ezithathwe njengeyodwa.
Okwesishiyagalombili, izimfihlo zokuhlala uhleli
(1) Hamba ube nobuchule: Ungahlukumezi, lapho uthola izikhalazo ezinkulu, uzigende, bheka izimpilo.
(2) Hamba usebenzisa izimfuno: Uhlanganyela, nkathi kuithe, phinde uthole ukuqashelwa.
(3) Hamba ufaka imikhuba: Vala omunye, itheyili, ngesikhathi, uthuthele ubuningi bezinhlobonhlobo, lokhu kuzoba.
Isiphetho
Imindeni iyisiqalo senhlanhla, iyindawo yamandla yempilo. Ukuqondisisa kuhlangene nesimo esibi, kusenokuhlanganiswa namandla emisha. Kusuka kumkhuba wokuhlanzwa, ekubambisaneni, futhi emhlanganweni, wonke umkhuba uxhumene, ubonisa amandla okuhamba phambili. Uma sizipadela, imindeni iyamqanda, ubukhona obukhona buhamba phambili bezimpilo; isikhashana sekhaya sokugcina ukusindisa ngokujabula eminyakeni elandelayo.