Ngalesi sikhathi esikhangayo sezemidlalo, umuntu ogqoke izingubo ezinhle, ubambe ngokukhazimulayo amakhristal, phakathi kokukhanya okukhazimulayo. Lokhu akuwona umcimbi ojabulisayo kuphela, kodwa kuyisikhathi sokuhlonza izibusiso zokuzalwa okusha nokunyuswa kwamandla omuntu. Lo mcimbi ophawulekayo wemboni yemibono uveza ukudlula kwemfihlo yokuthi ungazuza kanjani inhlanhla, ususe imimoya embi, uvikeleke nomntu, futhi uthuthukise umqondo.
Okokuqala, ake sikhulume ngokuthi ungathola kanjani inhlanhla. Ukuze uthole inhlanhla, akudingeki kuphela ukuncika ezimweni zangaphandle, kodwa kudingeka ukulungisa ngaphakathi nangemizwa ewusizo. Ukwesekwa okukhazinyayo okukhonjiswa umuntu ogqoke kahle, kuyisihluthulelo sokudonsela inhlanhla. Ubuso babo obuhlwabusayo noshintsho lwabo, buvusa isifiso sokuba seduze, lokhu kwaziwa ngokuthi "umthetho wokudonsela". Umthetho wokudonsela ukhombisa ukuthi uma sigxila ezintweni ezijabulisayo, sizodonsela amandla amahle. Ngakho-ke, ukulungisa umqondo, ukuthuthukisa umqondo wokubonga, kuzocindezela ukuza kwenhlanhla.
Okwesibili, sizokwazisa kakhulu indlela yokususa imimoya embi. Imibono yembi, kungakhathaliseki noma kwenzekani, ingaba nomthelela kuwe impilo yakho nolwazi lwakho. Ukuze ube neqhaza emshinini, qala ngokuthuthukisa ukuzazi kwakho. Amakhristal akhazimula phezulu akuwona nje okwakha. Amakhristal abhekwa njengomthombo wamandla awusizo, angasusa kalula amandla amabi, ahlanze indawo esikuyo. Ngakho, empilweni yansuku zonke, ukufaka amakhristal noma ukuwafaka endlini kuzokwakha indawo yamandla, okusiza ukusiza ukuvikela imimoya embi.
Futhi, enye indlela yokususa imimoya embi, kungaba ukuphatha imvelo nangezicelo. Ukuze uthuthukise amandla amahle, singakwenza ukuphiliselwa kwendlu ngesikhathi senyanga ephelele, senze umkhuleko, sidede amanzi omunyu emaphakathini, bese sibuya nalola bondla emhlophe, njengoba ukumuncwa kugweba, sithe kabili uthuli lokungafuneki.
Ngemuva kwalesi sikhumbuzo, kubalulekile ukuthi ungaktuba ukubaluleka kokuvikela. Isinyathelo sokuqala sokuvikela, ukuqonda imiphumela emibi ethuthukisa. Lokhu kuhlanganisa amazwi angalungile emiphakathini, kanye nesimo esingekho khona engakuzwayo. Ukulahlwa kwemithwalo, singenela ezikhathini ezilula. Kulokhu, ukudala imingcele eqinile kubalulekile. Ngokukhuluma, okufaka amithambo nsuku zonke, sikhuthaza amandla okukwazi, ukuze sibe eqhulwini uma sibhekene nezinselelo eziphuthumayo.
Ukuvikela, kudinga ukuba senze isikhala esiphephile sokuqonda. Noma izimo zangaphandle zingashintsha, singenza indawo engathwelwanga imithwalo, okuyisinqumo sokuvikela. Singenza ukunyathela okungama-josti lokubeka umphakathi, uma kudinga ukwenza okuwumoya okufuna ukumisela ukwaziswa.
Njengoba siphakamisela amandla okuzivikela, akufanele sishiye phansi ukuthuthukisa. Ukuze uthuthukise, udinga ukunakekela izimfanelo ezisixhumanisayo, hhayi nje ukuncika kuzinto zangaphandle. Isibonelo, singahlola uphondo olunamandla, ngokuqhubeka ukufunda, ukufanekisa, nokwenza ukubuka kwethu. Kulesi sihamba, izincwadi zikhona njengezikhumbuzo ezikhazimulayo, ziza nemibono engapheli, zihola kulabo abawina ngemizamo.
Ngaphandle kokuhlanganise ulwazi, ukuphatha imizwelo kuyinto efanele ekuthuthukiseni. Ukufunda ukuphatha imizwelo yethu, ukuvuselela umqondo, kuzokwandisa ukuphikisana kwethu. Ngokugubha umcimbi, bonke abahlanganyeli abaphethe kahle baphuma bezama, bezuze amandla okuphatha isikhathi nesikhala, le mvelaphi isuka emqondweni yabo, ukuze bakhulise imikhuba yabo.
Izenzakalo zamakhowe zikhanga imicabango nokuqonda, zidingeka ukuba zenze kube khona kajabule. Lapho siphakamisa umqondo, kungaba okukhombisa umphakathi, mane kube izimfanelo ezixhumanisayo, ngoba ukuzifunda kuseyinde impi yekhono. Ukubonisana okugcwele, okunemizwa, kufanele kuvuselelwe ukuze singayeki kabuhlungu, mantshi, ukufunda ukwandisa imiphetho.
Lapho siphetha lesi sihamba, kungenzeka ukuthi sithumele amehlo akhanyayo ekhanyiseni amakhristal. Asikho kuphela okuhambelana, kodwa kukhona kokuqinisa amandla omuntu. Noma uthola inhlanhla, ususe imimoya embi, ubaleke, noma uthuthukise, kudingeka umqondo onezinga elikhulu ukuze ubhekane nezinselelo. Futhi le mikhuba ivela kulokhu kukhanya okulagesi, ikhombe: zonke izikhathi zokuphila ziwukukhangela, zilungele ukukhula.
Masibambe lezi zibusiso, sijabule ezikhathini ezikhethekile, sihlale sithakazelela lokho kulungile okufunwa. Bonke abathokozayo, kungakhathaliseki ubudala, ubulili noma ubuhlanga, bangaba i-hero ye-jan, ngoba lapho kuyo kuphela, uma bewubona ubuchwepheshe bakho, uzokwazi ukunciphisa zonke, ulandele inhlanhla.