Ebusuku bokuphuma kwenyanga, ukukhanya kwenyanga kuphakathi kokuthuleka nokumangalisayo, amalungu omndeni ahlangene ethunukweni lokuthula, leli yisikhathi esifanele sokuxhumana, ukuzindla, kanye nokugeleza kwemvuselelo eyenzayo. Lokhu kuhlanganyela kulungele kakhulu ukucabanga okuhle, masiphawule indlela yokusebenzisa lesi sithuba ukuze sithole inhlanhla, sinciphise ububi, sikhanyise futhi sithuthukise.
Okokuqala, ukukhetha indawo efanele kuyisihluthulelo sokucabanga. Kulelonyanga yokuphuma, kubalulekile ukugxila ezithoniswa kwemvelo, engahlali yodwa phakathi kwezihlahla eziyizgreen neziphunga, kodwa futhi kunawo umoya opholile nosound wemvelo, konke lokhu kungasisiza ukuba senze kube lula ukuhlalisana nemicabango. Ake wonke amalungu omndeni azwe ukuxhumana phakathi kwabo kule ndawo ethulile, futhi sithuthukise uhambo lwethu lokucabanga.
Isinyathelo sokuqala, ukuthula nokugxila. Bonke abathintekayo ngaphambi kokuqala ukucabanga, kufanele baphumelele imakhalekhukhwini nezinto ezingavumiukwazi ukuba, bavalwe amehlo, baphonse umoya ophilayo, bazwe umoya uhamba esifubeni sabo, bese baphulaphula kancane. Kule nqubo, gcina ugxile emphefumulweni wakho, uzwe ukushintsha okukhudlwana komoya, uphume zonke izinhloso ezingekho ezandleni.
Ngemuva kwalokho, singakhuthaza amalungu omndeni ukuba baqale imicabango emihle, okuzokwenza ukuheha inhlanhla. Ungacabanga ngezikhathi ezinhle ezinqwabelene nezindlala okwakudinga ngempela, njengokuphumelela ekuphothuleni iphrojekthi, noma umnyaka ophumelele ezemali, izinto ezinjalo zingasisiza ukuba sizwakalise ukuzwakali kwethu empilweni. Njengoba uhlala uphakathi kokuphefumula, cabangela ukuthi uthole impumelelo nenjabulo, le mvelo izogxuma kalula nakuwe.
Njengoba ukucabanga kuqhubeka, singaqala ukufuna imikhuleko. Kulomzuzu, sebenzisa amandla akho emphefumulo ukwenza izibusiso nezifiso zibe yizithombe eziyinto ethile, uma ufisa ukuthola inhlanhla enhle, ungaphinde ukhumbuze: "Ngikhanga amandla amahle, impilo yami igcwele inhlanhla nenjabulo." Uma kudingekile ukususa ububi, ungathi: "Ngihambelana namandla emvelo, ububi abubangeni." Noma iyiphi isifiso, leli khweletu lingahlanganisa imicabango yakho namandla omhlaba, kukhule amandla amahle.
Amalungu omndeni angashintshana ukuthumela izifiso zabo nemicabango yokuvikela, lokhu akukhuphuli umoya wokuhlanganyela, kodwa futhi kuzinza amandla ezifiso zabo endaweni efudumele. Le nqubo igcwele imizwa ethile kanye nokwesekwa, isiza wonke umndeni ukuze uthole ukuhlekisa, futhi inikeze ukwesekwa kwezemizwa.
Njengoba singena esigabeni sesithathu sokucabanga, singamenywa wonke umuntu ukuba akhe "ukukhanya kokuvikela" enhliziyweni yakhe, lokhu kuyindaba yombono, okuwumfanekiso wokukhanya nokuphila okuhle. Cabangela ukuthi ukukhanya kugubha umzimba wakho, lokhu kusho ukukhanya okukhazimula kangangokuthi kuyakwenza kuhlakazeke yonke imitha emibi nezingelosi. Le practice yokwenza umbono ayikhulisa kuphela amandla okukuvikela, kodwa futhi isiza wonke umndeni ukuthi akhe umbono wokuvuma.
Ngemva kokuphothula lezi zindawo zokucabanga kanye nezifiso, kubakhuthaza bonke ukuthi babheke emuva kulolu hambo, bhalise izifundo nezimvo. Le ngxenye yokubhala akukhulisi kuphela ukwakha okuthile nokukhula, kodwa futhi iyisisekelo esihle sokwabelana ngexperience, futhi ikhuthaze ukuhlangana. Wonke umuntu angakhuluma ngezinguquko ezitholakele nakakhulu ezifiso ezizotholwa.
Ekugcineni, sithokozisa imvelo namandla kaNkulunkulu, kuleli busuku bokuphuma kwenyanga, asithola inhlanhla nezibusiso, sikhuthaza ukuhamba kwabubi, futhi sikhuphule amandla ekhaya lokuvikela nokuthuthuka. Lokhu kuqinisa impela, kodwa okwengeziwe kuyinto eyingqayizivele ukuthi ukuxhumana phakathi kwamalunga omndeni, ukwesekwa kwabo nothando, yilona thuba eliyinhloko lokuqhubeka phambili.
Ngokwenza le ndlela ekhethekile ukuze sikhumbule ukuphuma kwenyanga, masithole amandla njalo ngaso sonke isikhathi sokucabanga, sithumele izaziso ezinhle nezichilo ezinzima zansuku zonke. Njengoba ukuqhamuka kwenyanga kwakhiwa singazibona njengezinto ezizimele, sithola iziqondiso ezifanele ukuze sakhe impilo engcono.