Emsakazweni ashintsha ngokushesha, siba nezikhathi lapho sizizwa sikhathazekile emizweni nasemzimbeni, kanti ezinye izikhathi sithinteka kakhulu ngamandla amabi avela ngaphandle. Ukungena endaweni yokucabanga ethule, ayisitholi nje ukuphumula nokuthula, kodwa futhi ingasiza ekutholeni inhlanhla, ukususa imimoya emibi, ukuzivikela, kanye nokwakha uzwelo. Le ngxenye izocabangela izinyathelo zemikhuba yokuvumelana and izimfihlo, futhi izokuhola ungena kulolu hlobo lwezwe olugcwele imibala namandla.
Okokuqala, ukukhetha indawo efanele yokucabanga kubalulekile. Le ndawo kufanele ibe nokuthula nokuphuma, kude nokuphazamiseka okukhona empilweni yansuku zonke. Singakwazi ukukhetha ekamelweni lethu, noma sithole indawo ethule epakini. Endaweni yokucabanga, ukuhlela kahle kuzosisiza ukukhulisa amandla. Ngokwesibonelo, singakhetha ukufaka amatshe ahlukeneyo nemibala efana ne-amethyst, i-lapis lazuli noma i-citrine, lawa matshwayo anawo amandla ahlukahlukene, futhi konke kungasiza ukuphola komzimba, umoya, nengqondo.
Okwesibili, lungisa itshe. Emikhubeni yokuvumelana, izitshalo zinezinto amazing. Azisize nje ekupholiseni, kodwa nazo zikhupha imimoya emibi namandla aphansi. Itshe elikahle lingaba uphondo lwakho. Ungakhetha uhlobo lwezitshe ngokuya ngezidingo zakho, njenge, uma ufuna ukwakha isibindi, i-rose quartz ingakhetha okuhle; uma ufuna inhlanhla, ungakhetha i-citrine.
Uma usukhethile indawo yokucabanga kanye nethsha, sizoba sekuqaleni kokucabanga okusemthethweni. Okokuqala, thola isikhundla esikhululekile, izingalo zikhululeka futhi zamukele izinyathelo eziphathekayo, ubambe itshe, ubeke phansi kokwehlisa, uzwe isisindo sawo. Ngalesi sikhathi, vala amehlo akho, uphume izikhumbuzo eziningi, ugxile kumjikelezo wenhliziyo. Ngokukhuculuka, vumela umzimba wakho ukuze ‘waphule’ konke okukhathazayo namazwi angalindelekile.
Ngalesi sikhathi, ungabhalela kulezi zikhumbuzo noma ifinyezo, okuzosiza ukukhetha amandla akho nezinhloso. Ezinye izisho ongasebenzisa zifaka phakathi “Ngithola amandla amahle” noma “Ngiyaziphindisela amandla no buntu.” Njengesinyathelo esilandelayo, zigxile phansi ezinhlakanhlakeni zothisha kanye namandla ayavela ngokuqhamuka, lena ikhuluma yokuvumelana phakathi kokuvumelana. Kuleso sigaba, qhubeka uvulelekile, uvumele imizwa yakho iphephe, uzwe amandla okuphola.
Ngenkathi ucabanga, ungalindela imibala ehlukene ukukhupha amandla aphansi. Cabanga ngojama lokukhanya okukhanya okhanyayo okukhanya, leli gama lingaba yinsiza yokudlula yonke imvelo ebuhlungu, ikhuluma nje nendlela ye mitha emihle, iyakub Schutz umoya wakho. Umqondo wokukhanyisa lezi zindlela ezikhanyayo kwenziwa odlulayo basondela, basazi ukuthi bangakhulisa amandla akhe kashukela.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sokucabanga, ungakwenza kucace kahle. Lokhu kungenziwa ngokuphindia amaphuzu okukhumbula bese uhamba neziphumo ezihombisa phezulu. Emva kwalokhu, bonga uzwe uqobo yesikhathi ozinikele esikhawini sezi. Ungabonga umhlaba uqobo nesithombe esithile esiqhamuka.
Ngaphandle kweziphumo ezikhuluma ngaphansi kokucabanga, ukuhlelwa kwempilo yansuku zonke kuyadingeka kakhulu. Umsebenzi ukukhetha lezi zikhumbuzo kanye nezenzo kungase kusize inkathe thatha ezinye zezi, kuza ezinzima ezizwakalayo. Nansi okukhumbulekayo kwenkumbulo yokuphila okuyisisekelo:
1. Yiba nezimpilo ezinhle: Ukudla kahle nokuzivocavoca kukhulisa amandla omzimba, kwehlisa ukuvuselela, nokusiza ukuzinza komoya.
2. Thola isikhathi sokucabanga: Ukukhumbula khe tese awukugi, keistungzi noma izimfihlo regelmäßig.
3. Qonda imizwa: Qini uphiwe imizwa yokuhonekela ngemuva, ufunde ukukhiphisa isimilo somoya ubalulekile.
4. Hlanza indawo: Qiniseka ukuba indawo eyasendleleni ihlale ihlanzekile, sebenzisa izinhlelo ukudlula, njenge ukulimena kwezinto ezithile.
5. Bamba ezinye: Nibabazakala nabanye behlanganyela imikhuba yokuvumelana, ukuze wakhe isiboni sokupholisa.
Ngokuheha izindlela ezinqwabelenindaba, hhayi kuphela ukufanisa ukushisa neqhaza, siphuma uzwe usonomu iziphakamisa ngamathuba. Njengomphula ohamba phambili, emaphakathini abanye, ubufakazi bamazwi nezindinganiso, ukuqhubekela phambili kukhuluma okufaneleke kakhulu. Lokhu kuchaza ukuthi akukhona kuphela izinyathelo, kodwa impilo uchungechunge. Ngokukhula ngokuqhubeka, uzobona ulwazi, kancane kancane.
Ngalesi sikhathi, ungakwazi ukufaka abanye, nabakhula, ubhalela lezi zinkolelo nesehlakalo. Ngalezi zinyathelo, sizoba ukusebenzelana Bosole.