Ngaphansi kokukhanya kwenyanga ephelele, izinkanyezi zikhanya, ukukhanya kwe-nyanga okwegolide kuqhamuka njengomphefumulo osawolintweni emathonyeni aluhlaza, kulandela umhlaba ngengqikithi emangalisayo. Le ndawo iyindawo ephelele yokwenza imikhuleko, lapho abaphila bezama ukuxhumana namandla enhliziyo yabo. Bakholelwa ukuthi kulezi zikhathi, ukuxhumana namandla omhlaba kuzokwenza kube nezincomo eziyinqaba namandla. Le ndatshana izobheka ukuthi bangakuthola kanjani lokhu okuhle, baphume izikhala ezimbi, bazivikele, futhi bakhulise ubani.
Okokuqala, ukuze bathole okuhle, abaphila bavame ukukhetha ukuthandaza nokuzindla ngaphansi kwenyanga ephelele. I-nyanga ephelele imele ukuphetha nokukhethwa, futhi le yisikhathi esifanele sokuhlanza okwedlule futhi samukela okusha. Abaphila bakhetha ngokucophelela itshe, elikholwa ukuthi lizinakekela amandla omhlaba futhi langena kumoya owenza kahle. Ngokuthwala itshe, abaphila bavala amehlo, badlulisa izifiso zabo emcabangweni uMhlaba. Benza imithandazo nezinhloso, bathokozisa amandla okuphawula ekuphileni kwabo.
Izimbali ezinsimini zikhanya kakhulu kule ngxenye, lezi zimbali ezinempilo zingaphezu kokuba imiphumela yemvelo, kodwa zimele amandla okuphila nokuthandaza. Kulolu hlelo, abaphila bakhetha ukuhlala phakathi kwezimbali, ngoba ubukhona bazo bukhulisa amandla alolu hlelo. Imvelo, umoya omncane, nokukhanya kwenyanga, konke kuholela ekududuzweni nasekuvumeleni kokuthula kwabaphila.
Kule nqubo, abaphila bangaphenya kabanzi indlela yokususa izikhala ezimbi. Ngokwenhlalo, izikhala ezimbi zivame ukuvela emoyeni wemizwa emibi, amandla, noma izilonda ezidlulelwe. Abaphila kufanele bagxile ekuphileni kwangaphakathi. Okokuqala, kufanele bakhe indawo engcwele, kude nokuphazamiseka. Emathonyeni, bangasebenzisa njengezimpahla, amakhaba, amanzi engcwele, noma ezinye izinto ezizibona zingcwele ukuze baphumelele nakho konke okuhlwabusayo.
Bese-ke, abaphila bavame ukusebenzisa imikhuleko ethile ukuze basuse izikhala ezimbi. Le mikhuleko iyimethegi yangempela, kanti okuqukethwe kwalezo ezahlukene, kodwa zinezinhloso ezinamandla nezinhloso eziphakeme. Bavala amehlo, baphindaphinda imikhuleko, bese bedrugqwa emoyeni emukelekayo, inkohlakalo ivunyelwa ukuba ikhanya, iphume ngobukhazikhazi, ithokozise futhi ithumele izifiso zabo phezulu, ikhulule ubuhlungu nengcindezi.
Ukuzivikela kubalulekile kakhulu. Kule ritual engcwele, abaphila kufanele bathwale itshe labo, futhi baqonde ukuthi leli tshe lingabavikela. Itshe lungafanana nesivikelo, lungaba namazinga nezindlela ezidingekayo. Ngalesi sikhathi, abaphila badinga ukunikeza leli tshe incazelo ethile, bacabange ukuthi leli tshe limelela isibindi nesibindi sabo, ukwazi ukumelana nokuphazamiseka okuphuma.
Ekugcineni, ukukhuphula ukuzithiba kubalulekile. Ngokukhanya kwenyanga ephelele, abaphila akukhona nje ukufuna ukufisela, kodwa bahlanganyela naphakathi. Bangasebenzisa ukuzenzakalelayo, babe nezinhloso nezinhlelo ezithile, ukuqonda ukuthi bangavula kanjani amandla aboshiwe. Ngesikhathi, izimbali ezinsimini zikhumbuza ukuthi kumele zikhule, zinqamuka emhlabathini obonisa ukukhanya nemvula, zifundise ukufunda ukuphila.
Kulolu hlelo, abaphila bangaqopha izimo zabo, imizwa nezinguquko, ukuze baqhubeke nokukhuphula ukuzibophezela kwabo. Kufanele baphinde babuyekeze kuzo zonke izinyanga eziphelele, ubuyekeze indlela yabo yokukhula, baphinde bacabangele izinhloso nezinhloso zabo, bahlale belungiselela amandla namanje, ukuze zonke izinyanga eziphelele zibe yimicimbi ekhanyayo empilweni yabo.
Noma lezi zindlela zezenzo zithonywe yizinkolo eziningi, kepha okubaluleke kakhulu kwezemibono kudingeka kube kuhlonipha kokwazisa nokuqhubeka. Ngokusebenzisa lezi zindlela, singaqhubeka sithole ukuthula nokubonga kwethu, simelane nemingcele, sikhulise isimilo sethu, simukele ikusasa eligculisayo.
Ngokwenza lezi zinhlelo nokuqonda, singathola ukuhle, futhi sikwazi ukuqonda kahle ngezikhala ezimbi. Emnqamuleni wokukhanya kwenyanga, masihlanganyele ukuze sithole umhlaba, siwumukele kahle, sibe ubenebhodla ngezinkanyezi ezikhanyayo, sinqobe indlela phezulu.