Ngexesha elihle lokuhlwa, umnqweno uphawulwe ngumnqweno omncinci ophakathi kwepaki, uvula amehlo akhe ukuze aphumelele imithwalo yangaphandle, eziveza amandla avela phezulu. Ukukhanya okuncinane kweLanga kudlula kwiigxalaba, kudlulela emhlabeni, ukukhanya kwemihla-khulu kudanisa, ngokungathi kuhamba ngemvakalelo yokuphila. Iibhulorho ezijolise emoyeni weemvula zihlala ziqhubezela, zibhalisela ukuba ziba nenjongo, le mifanekiso ayilunganga yento entle, ibonisa umkhombandlela ophezulu wobomi, ixhoma ubudlelwane bendalo. Kuloo ndawo, asifanele sifunde indlela yokufumana imfuno, ukunceda iithunzi ezimbi, ukuvikela, kunye nokuphucula.
Okokuqala, singayifumana njani imfuno? Ngokulula, imfuno ayifumani ukukhanya ngongco, kuyindlela yokwahlukana kweemvakalelo. Xa sifunda ukuyeyisa kwiintsuku zokukhanya, siyiququzelela imisipha, sibe sesikwazi ukuziva ubuhle obuncuphetonyo. Le mva ingenisa ukuchaneka ebomini bethu, ibeke umphumo ovuyisayo. Nazi ezinye iinkqubo ezinxulumene nokwandisa umphumo wethu:
1. **Uphando lwengqondo**: Hamba ixesha elithile mihla le, njengomfana osemncinci, uvalelwe amehlo akho, uxhomekeke kwiinto ozipheleyo, uzive ukushisa kwelanga. Le ndlela ithintele imali emibi, ikhulisa simahla ukuchaneka, ifike ukufumana amandla.
2. **Uxolo lwemvakalelo**: Ziveza "ndiyihlobo imfuno" okanye "ndiyavuma kum denzelwe" ukuba kuphela kunceda ukuxhamla ophumeleyo. Zama ukurekhoda impumelelo yakho yemihla le, gqiba kunyamezelo lwakho, le mva yoBuntu, ibhayiza ukuba ubomi bulungile.
3. **Ukhumbulo**: Fumanisa izinto ezikuphilayo, kunokuthi yincwadi enezoqhawe okanye ingoma ephezulu, ukunyamezela lezi zinto, ube nomzamo ukwenza okuphathekayo eziphilayo, mhlawumbi umoya wakho ophezulu.
Okwesibini, ukunceda iimfuno ezimbi, xa sikwazi emva kokubona ukuba imithwalo emibi izaziwe, yimele sithathe umnyango ukuhamba, sibuye singene kwiimpahlwe. Nazi ezinye iindlela:
1. **Ukwahlula ibhanti**: Khusela ubungakanani bendawo, akukho mzi, ube emoyeni. Sebenzisa iincindi, i-incense okanye udibaniso, lezi zingenza imithwalo emibi ukuba ithulule. Beka ezi zinto kwiindawo ezinzulu, ngakumbi emnyango, ukuze uyihlahle imithwalo emibi.
2. **Ubuhlobo obuhle**: Ukuphila nabantu abakhulisa, phulumla kwiimvo ezingcolileyo. Xa ungawuvumelanga umva watshona ubomi, ungaphumeza umoya wakho. Khumbula ukufumana uvavanyo naye, uqhubeke uhleliwe unemithwalo.
3. **Uphando ngomoya**: Njengomfana, unomoya omphezulu, uvumelekile ngelanga. Ukukhanya kukhuthazela la madigidi, ukwandisa ukungena kumoya osmile, ukunceda umatshini ukuba uhambe umoyana obhaqiweyo.
Ngemihla yokuphilisa, ukuvikeleka kbalulwa. Nazi ezinye zezicwangciso:
1. **Uguqulelo lwamavola**: Funda ukwenza "hayibo" kumakhomputhawana, ubungakanani, nokubuyisela umoya solid, udlale emsithweni nokuqhuba kokuwuhlala okuncu.
2. **Ulawulo lwemvakalelo**: Ngamaxesha, phosa uhambise umola ukuze ucima ngempumelelo ilidade, uthumele umoya ochatshazayo, nkqu okuhle komthwalo. Ukubhala uyakinga okanye uyangena ngendlela, uyi-ala lokukhulula imvakalelo.
3. **Ukwenza indlela**: Qhayisa ngethuba ukuthokozisa, ukwandisa umzimba, ngethulusi eyiloko. Ukuyoga, ukugijima okanye ukuxhasa, akukhuseli kuphela, ikhulisa umoya uvule kwintlalontle.
Ekugqibeleni, ukuphucula kufanele kube nefelo yomphakathi. Kolu phando olutsha, iqela leencwadi lilandelwe ukuthembeka kokukhawulwa = ukwandisa ukuthetha.
1. **Ukwenza iinjongo**: Ukuxhuba umzi nokugcina izithintelo, umyaka uzakuphucule ijolise.
2. **Fumanisa imithombo yokufunda**: Ukukhetha iikhosi, ukuxhuba iinkcazo, ukuxhasa ukudlula kwiingcali, umphanda osasele apho ubona ukufunda ukuba ube nathi.
3. **Uthembeke ukucacisa**: Ngexesha, ukunceda ube necandelo, ufumane kwanthabala nabazeki.
Ngenxa yazo zonke ezi nqaku, akukhathaliseki imfuno, iphozilwe iimfuno ezithunyelwe, ngokuhamba, iithunzi ezimbi, uvikelekile, kwaye ube kuthi ukhulisa amandla akho. Ngakumbi, umphanda uthembekile, ukuchayeka okuhle nesiphetho sokuqingqa. Ngexesha elizayo, siyakufunda lemifuno sayo, siphileo umoya omncinci, ube ujolise kudidi ngezizathu, kube nemfuno. Le mfuze ivela kumoya ofisiweyo, uxhumane nothando lokuphila. Masithathe umphanda omncinci kwaye sihlale sibe phakathi koko kuthe ngqo!