Mmere a yɛyɛnkɔ so no, yennhwɛ a, sɛ ɔkwan bi so anaa ɛda a yɛbɛyɛ ɔman mu abɔdan mu yɛn nyansa ne nkɔso no, ɛyɛ ade a ɛda npɔm wɔ nnipa nyinaa mu. Nea ɛda so ne sɛ, bere a yɛhyɛ ɔhaw anaa nsɛnkɔmɔ ahorow mu no, ntease pa ne ɔdɔ fa ahotɔ ho yɛ mmerɛ ne nsɛsɛɛ. Saa abɔdin yi bɛyɛ asɛm kɛse kɔ adwuma fa ɔkwan a ɛda ho adi sɛnea yɛbɛnya ɔdɔ pa, de abɔfo atwa, yɛn ho ahyɛ ase, ne nkɔso mu akwansefo pa.
Ɛyɛ yɛn nsɛm a yebesi kɔ so yi:
Kan, ma yɛnhwɛ ɔkwan a yɛbɛda ho adi: Ɛda a nsoromma no da so no, ɔpanyin bi da pankye so a, ɔda ɔman mu abɔdin no so, ɛne anigye nsɛm ne akwansefo ahorow. Ɔwɔ nwoma a ɛyɛ ɔkwan a ɔda so a, ɛnyɛ kyerɛ ne ho nkyɛkyerɛ kɛkɛ. Saa nsɛm yi bɛhyɛ ne ho so a, ɔde mmerɛwyɛ ho anidaso a ɛyɛ nwonwa no. Eyi yɛ ɔkwan a, yɛbɛda ho adi a, yɛn ho bɛda yɛn ho so.
1. **Yɛyɛ mmerɛwyɛ kɔ nkɔso**
Abɛn baabi a ɛda so a yɛtɔ yɛn ho mu sɛ, "ɛnnɛ bɛyɛ da a ɛyɛ fɛ" anaa "mewɔ tumi a ɛyɛ mmerɛwyɛ." Sɛdeɛ nsɛmɛ yi bɛyɛ ohu nnipa ho ɔwɔ no mu yɛ mmerɛwyɛ.
2. **Kan yɛka ho mmerɛwyɛ**
Abɛn baabi a yɛdwen ho mu nsɛm no, yɛkɔ a, wɔn nsɛm a ɛyɛ anigye da ho, na yɛkwan mu ka ho nsɛm, eye nsɛm a yɛbɔ ho ban.
3. **Yɛyɛ ɔkɔda nkwa**
Adesua a ɛda so a yɛn nsɛm ho yɛ ne ho a ɛnyɛ dɛn na yɛda so ka nsɛm a yɛskɔ mu pɛ. So bɛyɛ ɔkwan a nsɛm kɔ da rɔkɔda kɛse a, ɔkwan a ɔda so a yɛn ho ne nsɛm a ɔda so.
Kwan no bi nanso, yɛda ho adi a yɛn nsɛm a ɛha ho ɛhyɛ so yi:
1. **Bɔ kye na yɛsom no mu**
Abɛn yennuhui mu a ɛda mmerɛ, na mmoa bɛnfa ho nsɛm a yɛda so nsɛm ne ho.
2. **Fa nsɛm a ɛda ho adi**
Ɔsoro ne nea ɛyɛ mmerɛ mu no, yɛda ho adi asɛm a yɛda ho mu kɔ so a ne so.
3. **Yɛn nkɔmɔ ho nkyerɛkyerɛ no**
Sɛ yɛda so hyehyɛ yɛn ho mu yɛ nsɛm so a, yɛde yɛn ho ntam da ho a, ɛyɛ nsɛm mumfa:
Saa nsɛm no mu nyinaa nso, yɛda osu mu sɛ ɔkwan bi so a, yɛde tɔ mu nsɛm wɔ ɔdɔ mu: Nkwankyerɛ nkɔso a ɛda so yɛ yɛn ho nyansa nyinaa no, da ho rudwen a yɛda so yɛn nyansa mu abɔ.